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Shame, Blame & The Family Name: Growing Up Gay in an Arab Household
“The deeper that sorrow carves into your being, the more joy you can contain” Kahlil Gibran Are you a Middle-Eastern man who is attracted to other men? Do you feel the need to hide, for fear of being judged or marginalised? Over the years I’ve worked with men who have struggled to bridge the gap […]
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Coming Out – Inviting In
“Coming out” is generally how the process of letting people know you are same-sex attracted has come to be known. This process – and indeed it is a process – is different for everybody. It’s also something that all same-sex attracted people have in common, having gone through their own “coming out” process. People often […]
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The Quantum Solution – Create Your Own Future
I often find people come to see me because they feel stuck. They’re unhappy with their life, unhappy with where they’re at, but can’t see a way forward. Even those who have worked hard on understanding themselves can come to a point where the question becomes “What next?”
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Do You Have a Sex Addiction
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Are you a sex addict? Are you constantly on apps like Tinder trying to organise a hookup? Is the main focus of your weekend about finding a sexual partner? Do you feel compelled to look for sexual engagements in bars, sex clubs, online, or with prostitutes? Of course, seeking and having sex itself is hardly […]
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The Problem With Porn
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I was recently interviewed about The Problem with Porn in relation to young men, alongside a couple of other professionals. The interview focuses on the impact of porn on relationships and how men can sometimes treat women as a result of the influences of porn. The part of my interview that was published relates to […]
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Talking about sex and sexuality
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Even though it’s often considered a ‘taboo’ subject, it’s important for men to explore and talk about sex and their sexuality. Our sexuality and how we express ourselves sexually is a vital part of who we are. To ignore this, or to hide it away, is simply a way to hide a part of ourselves […]
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